What if your marriage could be easy? Even joyful?
After 25+ years as a couples counselor, I left behind the therapy model for something better. Something that creates real shifts, quickly
I coach women who are ready to elevate their marriage to a higher frequency
I'll help you rediscover the extraordinary spark — in your relationship and in yourself
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“After a couple of years of reading pretty much everything you post Jenny (and doing a ton of work on myself), and still not finding that radical change I was looking for in myself or my relationship, I signed up for your 8 week course a few days ago. WOW – I am already feeling COMPLETELY differently towards my relationship and my partner.
Like little sprinkles of delighted hope for the first time in yeeeeears. THANK YOU SO MUCH! If you are wondering whether you should do this, and thinking maybe it will help, YES, YES IT WILL. Not sure where we’ll get to, but with a start like this I am actually feeling elated.
Jenny is the bomb! 😍😍”
“Before Jenny’s program I felt argumentative, not a priority, disconnected, taken for granted [in my marriage].
I am now more accountable, more anchored and clearer on how I choose to show up in this (and all) of my relationships.
We didn’t just pull out all the past bullshit, chew it up and spit it out.
This work DOESN’T focus on the problems. Instead, it gives you the tools to do the work to get to the intention that you desire.
This program allowed me to get invested in something that matters to me, something that changed the way I love myself and the way I love others.
I will keep my lessons from this training with me forever.”
Does your marriage inspire you? Does it light you up with pleasure?
What would it feel like to reclaim the spark in your relationship?
The feeling of pleasure that used to light you up with electricity. The one that felt like a flock of giddy butterflies when you were with your partner.
Maybe you can’t find it under all the irritation and resentment.
Maybe you’re on the verge of dragging your partner (back?) into couples counseling. Or maybe you’re already there.
Hoping that one of these days you’ll finally find the key that unlocks it all:
A sense of peace, ease, and harmony. That elusive feeling of ALIVEness you vaguely recall having.
And a partnership that zings you with pleasure all over again.
Here’s your big
magic wand moment: 🪄
It doesn’t need to be so hard
should you stay or should you go?
The fix-it therapy / coaching world makes a fortune from women who are stuck in the same loop of repetitive arguing.
Who feel deeply unsatisfied.
Who believe they need to do painful work to heal their marriage.
But I’ll tell it to you straight:
You don't need to spend more time trying to "heal" your relationship.
Untangle from the eye-rolling, the should-I-stay-or-should-I-go tail-chasing, and all the other bullsh*t that keeps you second-guessing your marriage.
You can stop working so hard.
The easy, nourishing relationship you want is closer than you think.
The richness. The spark. The intoxicating intensity you crave is available to you.
It’s time to receive. Time to thrive in fulfilling, meaningful romantic partnership.
It’s time to feel – finally – like you’re in a joyful, purpose-filled marriage.
It's time to come alive with fierce, electrifying pleasure.
Ready to rekindle the spark?
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Pleasure-centric torchbearer,
Truth-speaking live wire coach,
& creator of catalyzing containers for women
I’ve spent over 25 years showing incredible women how to thrive in rich, resonant relationships.
I’ve earned a long list of degrees and certifications. None of them say I’m “a revolution,” “a wayshower,” or a “mother f’ing dragon.” But some of the women in my programs have.
That’s because I’m a change catalyst. ⚡
I’m not here to fix your relationship. I’m here to show you how to find the answers in yourself.
I’m here to help you reignite the spark in your marriage,
connect to your own pleasure,
and joyfully claim a life that fulfills you — on every level.
More about Jenny
Stop pushing and discover what PULLS you
The path to a pleasure-rich partership is not accidental.
But! It’s also not prescriptive.
No book, podcast, or list of Ten Questions to Ask Your Partner will get you there.
That’s what makes it so magical. It’s yours and yours alone. Recorded in the sacred text of your wild and singular heart.
I’m here to guide you on your relationship journey – so you can start feeling electrified, inspired, and fulfilled in this life.
It’s worlds away from the therapist/coaching model that keeps you held in a low-frequency vibration.
I’ll help you reignite your spark so you can bear your own torch. Feed the flame of your relationships. And light the way for everyone in your world.
I’ll help you:
🌓 Move past the well-worn patterns in your relationship and open to new ways of being
🌓 Overcome your inner critic – so you can interrupt the cycle that’s separating you from what you desire
🌓 Create and hold a vision for your marriage – rooted in your own wisdom and internal safety
🌓 Rewire your brain so your unconscious mind is aligned with what you want to create in your marriage
🌓 Nourish new truths – about your relationship and your life
🌓 Know yourself as a full-body, sensorial experience (not from your head!)
Work with me
Working with me is an uncommon experience of coming to know your relationship
— and yourself — in a new way.
They surprise themselves by launching potent new paths.
And they tell me that I’ve “blown their minds and hearts wide open.”
Whatever brought YOU here, it’s knocking on your soul because you’re meant to follow it.
I’ll help you tune in, rekindle the spark, and tend your flame.
Women who work with me discover thrilling new frequencies in seemingly humdrum relationships.
If any of that hits close to home, this is your invitation to step out of the resentment loop
To devote yourself – deeply – to the giddy process of partnering with pleasure – in your marriage and in yourself
Explore what’s possible
"WORTH. EVERY. PENNY. What could possibly be more important and worthy of money than a lifelong relationship deeply-rooted in joy, strength, and true contentment? (Psst: the relationship I’m referring to is the one with yourself.)
[My partner] has noticed a HUGE difference, and comments on it almost daily.
Actually, he *thanks* me–for the work I’ve put into the program, and for dramatically shifting the energy of our home through that work.
Not only do we have an incredible marriage now, but our family is so solid and joyful.
The effects of my personal growth have spread into all aspects of our life.”
– M.J., Colorado
“My energy has improved, my mood has improved, my relationship with myself has improved. I feel inspired to grow and excited to know I can give myself the gift of joy.
Wow, this program is the key to the rest of your life.
I loved the mindset of this program. In therapy we continue to work on our perceived problems and feelings. This program leaves that in the dust and helps me show up for myself and my relationship with softness, grace and ease. Therapy never seems to resolve the feelings or issues.
Jenny was a genius at helping me see my role in my relationship. She was able to boost my awareness, increase my capability to show up for myself and relationship and gave me the skills to change anything in my life. Don’t wait any longer to live the life you want.”
– A.M.P., Washington
Join the ranks of grown-ass women who are guided by self-trust into deep, fulfilling marriages. Who are lit up, turned on, and tuned in.
Open to your desires. Attune to your inner spark. And let pleasure lead you to an extraordinary, purpose-filled life — deeply alive, embodied, and aware of your sacred nature
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