“The biggest gift I could ever give myself…
… and my family
… and those I work with
… and my friends
… and the planet”

Women tell me that my teachings are a necessary curriculum for living. That I impart what you need to know – but are never taught – about being fulfilled in life and in love.

What I offer is embodied knowing – wisdom that goes beyond what you know in your brain. Because your brain is important… but it’s what you know in your fleshy flesh – and how you LIVE what you know – that sparks real transformation.

“I met Jenny in 2019. And I've been enjoying her curriculum for that many years. I responded to an ad on Facebook, which is kind of out of character for me. But at that point in my life, I was feeling dark, feeling separated from myself, feeling like my life was over here. And my heart was over here. And the words she spoke in this Facebook ad resonated, so I got brave and made a call. And that's started me on an amazing journey. 

Jenny has given me tools of growth, of learning ownership in my own life, so that I can control my trajectory and invite out the person I want to become. I've often thought that this is a curriculum and a path that should be taught. We don't learn how to grow, and how to manage that growth very easily in this world. It's not something that's taught unless you find your teachers and Jenny's that teacher for me. 

So I'm talking to the women out there who might feel distant, cloaked, numb, sad. outside themselves, think about how you might be able to liberate yourself from that experience. 

I've been able to set down some burdens I've been carrying, and amplify the path I choose to walk. And that's a really powerful experience. What might you be carrying that you don't want to carry anymore? Something that you might no not know how to let go of. 

That's how I feel about Jenny and I'm going to stick with her my whole life.”

– Rachel

Back in November 2019 I was really sad. I was just really deeply sad and disoriented in my life. I had just celebrated my 30th anniversary with my husband. We've had challenges over the years. Normal life challenges, financial, intimate, all of that stuff. And we've been proponents of therapy for a long time. And it just got to the point where we’d done all the therapy. And I couldn't shake the feeling of feeling sad in my life, I felt like my life was happening in one space. And I was over here looking at it. I felt like nobody knew me. And I didn't know anybody else. 


I didn't know how to get to the place I wanted. I knew that I wanted to stay in my marriage. I just didn't know how to get there. 

And that's where I was when I entered into Jenny’s beautiful paving paths. I'm one of those women that feels generally pretty competent in my life, and pretty in control. And so it took a great deal of effort for me to step up to the plate, and let myself go back to learning and find the path that I was missing.

The thing that's happened most profoundly for me since working with Jenny: I've learned how to replace the voice that teaches you to react or judge or try and solve. I've learned to replace that with simple curiosity. And that has opened up everything. 

In my marriage, it's led to fruitful conversations and getting to know each other on a plane that we never had before. And in such a mature and caring and soft and gentle way. And it's opened up all kinds of avenues with work or my children or my own sense of self. 

There's something very special about this program that’s needed in society. But what's unique about what you've done here is this absolute harmonic convergence of women that I know I was desperately missing. I have lots of women friends, but we weren't supporting each other in these ways. We were partying, doing wine nights, great women doing fun stuff. But this is a different level of female engagement that is so richly supported, calling on the skills of other women to support each other in dynamic change and celebrate each other. 

It's a space where you can leave behind all of your self-pity, all of those things that aren't really helpful to grow. And you can go there and be open and vulnerable and real. 

That is uniquely powerful. 

Highlights from Rachel’s story

“It’s like a very clear light”

One thing women often tell me is that they feel like I’m speaking directly to them. 

I don’t have a crystal ball or a magic wand. But what I offer feels magical because I help you tap into what you already know deep within you. 🪄

When you’re attuned to your own inner wisdom, you can embrace an essential distinction: The difference between knowing a truth and feeling it.

I’m here to give you the keys, so your own knowing feels present, personal, and ALIVE.

“BTW… Purchasing your 8-week program in November was the best thing I did in 2021!!! PERIOD! After a year of listening to you like you were talking straight to me… I took a bet on myself! I’m now starting module 8 and it’s like a dream. I’m so thankful I get this info for a year because I’m gonna go over and over it again! Thank you Jenny.”

I started reading your posts online and it really spoke to me. It seemed like somebody was in my insides and speaking the words. It was like, oh, that's exactly how I feel, but I've never put it to words. I really connected with what you were saying and felt like you had something very valuable to share. I was excited to see that you had a program we could join. And I just have to say up front, I'm so excited that we get to keep it for a year because I'm going to keep going back over and over it because there's so much content there.

I've been on a little bit of a journey. I've been married 36 or 37 years. We've gone through ups and downs and been feeling very disconnected. We separated for a year and a half. And then he came back a little several years ago. And I love him. I know he loves me, but it’s still a lot of disconnection. And then feeling stuck in the marriage, feeling stuck in my job, feeling stuck where I am in the country. I've been feeling stuck and unhappy and unsatisfied. And I didn't want to live like that.

I love the title of your program. Your Marriage is Your Ashram. It shifted my thought from being my problem, my sadness, my upset, to, this is where I do my work. This is a blessing. And even though it's not perfect, it's okay. 

A little bit [of applying your teachings] was giving myself permission to do it. Feeling like I had invested in myself because I was worth it and things could change. Even just the way that it was written, there's a clarity to it that I hadn’t found up until I found you. It’s like a very clear light. It really spoke to me in a way that made so much sense. And it didn't make me feel bad. There was no shame in it. There was something about giving myself permission to look at me and place value in myself, take the time to do it.

Things are more intentional for me now, like I am making a conscious decision. Before, I was doing a lot of reaction. A lot of running here, there, and everywhere responding to my environment, my situation, my job, my husband, but without any intention on my part, without any distinct goal in mind. 

I feel like the possibilities are wide open. I wasn't feeling that way before I took this course. And it's opened me up to be able to make some decisions I was afraid to make before. I'm gonna go be a granny nanny for my first grandbaby who was born two months ago. I've wanted to be in California with them and I'm transitioning back out there so that I can watch the baby when my daughter goes back to work. And I'm just incredibly happy and thankful because I would not have given myself permission to do such a thing before.

I've not really spoken too much to [my husband] about this course. But our relationship is lighter. We've had more giggles. He's supported this move, which I never thought he would have. I didn't realize I had so much power and light within myself to do the things that I've been called to do or want to do. So yeah, it's changed our relationship, even without us working on our relationship. 

[For anyone who’s considering signing up,] I strongly encourage you to love yourself enough to care for yourself, whatever the way that is. For me, this really made a difference. There was something about the way that you said things and just changed my perspective. It lit it up for me. It was different. 

And the way that you laid out the program, those first couple foundational ones were kind of mind-blowing for me. I was able to have a shift that opened me up to other things. So I'm just very grateful. Thank you. I appreciate you very much.

Highlights from Linda’s story

“Jenny! I used to read your posts thinking you created them just for me! 

I’m starting week 4 of the self-guided 8-week program and it is changing my life! How I think, how I engage with my husband, with my teenage boys, how I’ve stopped my pity party about my past choices! Every stepping stone you teach is so important! The windows vs walls info is a game changer! Took me over a year to make the decision to work with you and now I can start 2022 thinking 2.0 all the way! #visionkeeper”

“This could be the most important training of your entire life”

“Rock bottom.” 
“A train wreck.” 
“Contemptuous.” 
“A hot mess.” 
“Hopeless.”
Those are some of the words women use to describe the state of their marriage before entering my circle.
For many of them, working with me is a last-ditch, hail-mary pursuit – usually after years of therapy.
They’re often ready to leave. To say f*ck the consequences. F*ck it all.
And they’re surprised – and often skeptical – that a program like Your Marriage Is Your Ashram requires no effort on the part of their spouse.
That’s why some of my favorite transformation tales are about “hot mess” marriages that become “hot sex” marriages.
(Oh – and I never want you to stay in a marriage whose end has come. Somethings it’s time for something to be over, and I can get you there, too.)

“Before Jenny’s program I felt argumentative, not a priority, disconnected, taken for granted [in my marriage].

[After the program] my marriage is my priority. It teaches me what I need to see the most and I think about it every single day.

I am more accountable, more anchored and clearer on how I choose to show up in this (and all) of my relationships.

[Unlike in couples counseling, in this program] we didn’t just pull out all the past bullshit, chew it up and spit it out. We worked in the present. We worked on setting up rituals for greater awareness and spirituality.

This work DOESN’T focus on the problems. Instead, it gives you the tools to do the work to get to the intention that you desire.

This program allowed me to get invested in something that matters to me, something that changed the way I love myself and the way I love others.

I will keep my lessons from this training with me forever and THAT is worth more than anything.
– J.T.

“[When I started with Jenny’s program my marriage was] pretty much at rock bottom. I felt hopeless. [And now, we are] Moving forward, slowly, in the right direction. I have hope that we can make positive progress.

[Since starting this program] I have a pathway. I can see where I have contributed to the challenges we have had – something that was not clear to me before. I also feel changes in my relationships and in my work – most notably with my kids. I am much softer and spacious with them.

This program really hones in on how you can make changes. Therapy for us has tended to focus on the fires and how they could have been prevented. In other words, it feels past-focused, and we weren’t taking the lessons and adapting them to the future.

This program felt very future-focused, i.e., how am I going to design my future in the way that I would like? How am I going to change this dynamic to change my relationship? Where is my role in the current and how can I use it to influence the future?

I will TOTALLY RECOMMEND this program to all of my peeps!

I was super skeptical [about the investment], but I was also desperate for something more from my relationship, and I was unable to get traction anywhere else. We’ve been in therapy for years, I’ve read more than a dozen relationship books – but I wasn’t really focusing in on ME and what I needed to do differently.

Most importantly, this is really intensive – you have high access to a great therapist/leader and tons of interaction with other like-minded women who want the same thing from their own relationships. The calls and the community allow you to address your challenges and ask your questions in real time so you can put your skills to work in real time. The practice is so critical to success and this investment pushes you toward that practice.

It’s an intensive and insightful program that leads you to understand exactly how your role in your relationship is impacting the relationship, and how you can change your role and your perspective to make positive change. You can’t change anyone else, but you can change yourself, and making those changes inevitably has an impact on the ecosystem.”

– K.D., Virginia

“[Before being mentored by Jenny, my marriage was a] train wreck. Completely disconnected. Zero attraction and so much contempt and feelings of hopelessness.

[Now,] we greatly appreciate each other. Our attraction is building and we have a totally different way of communicating. We both feel more safe and confident.

[Since the program] I’m very aware of the energy and stories I used to bring to my marriage [that were not helpful]. I see my role in how we ended up where we were. I now work to show up as my most compassionate, living self in order to get the marriage I want. This was all about what we can control, which is ourselves.

Loved the spiritual and mindfulness foundation which is very different than therapy.

What about the investment of time and resources? Divorce is more expensive.

Want a new marriage? Make the investment and you will get the return.

I can’t thank [Jenny] enough. [She] helped me during one of the most difficult times of my entire marriage and for this I am forever grateful.

[My husband] says I’m more approachable and he can see all the ways I’m putting in effort to love him. He’s glad we spent the money.”

– L.S.

[Since completing the program,] I have made a huge effort to celebrate, appreciate and feel grateful for my partner. And it is all coming back to me.

I feel a huge shift in how we are together, and how to work on our connection more.

How is it different from regular therapy? It’s like speed therapy! I have seen big and little shifts everywhere in 8 weeks. And with such attention from Jenny to my posts or emails.

I have never felt this supported in my life. Thank you so much, Jenny.

If you need a big shift and don’t want to lose any more time not feeling happy, this is worth every penny.

[My partner] has noticed more accountability, less blaming, more being together, less fights, a happier time together, and the big one – more, better, present sex!

– H.M., Colorado