There IS a shortcut from 😡 to 😍

Real talk, girlfriend.

You’re a strong, successful woman. You would never tolerate someone calling you a bitch. And you shouldn’t!

But fair warning: I’m about to use the B word.

What I’m about to say is not about making yourself small, erasing your opinions, or being a doormat for the sake of marital harmony.

I’m talking about something different. I’m talking about all the times you’ve been irritable with your spouse for no good reason. The times you’ve snubbed your spouse in favor of your phone, answered an honest question with brattiness, or rolled your eyes when they were doing their best to connect. The times you’ve griped at your spouse (the person you chose over any other) about stuff you don’t really care about.

The moments when you’ve looked at your own behavior and thought to yourself: Am I… being a bitch?

And if you’re asking… 🤨

So I hope you’ll forgive my throwing around the B word. I’m just saying the quiet part out loud.

Because I hear this all the time from women behind closed doors. Women who know they’re being bitchy, mean, or contemptuous – but don’t know why.

… and it doesn’t require erasing your opinions

Allow me to shine a flashlight for you: If you’re being a bitch to your spouse, there’s a good chance it’s because you’re malnourished. Your needs – physical, emotional, mental, spiritual – are being unmet. 

And that’s a surefire recipe for being unhappy. You’re in a permanent state of defiance. You’ve created a whole landscape of resistance, and there’s no other way to be than bitchy. 

You’re showing your displeasure with life through your attitude, because you’re nursing the wounds of your unmet needs. 

Before you respond with BINGO! My spouse is not meeting my needs! … 

Here’s a polite little truth bomb: 

It’s not up to your spouse to meet your needs. 

You’re a grown-ass woman. That’s your job, my dear.

You’ve been secretly hoping that if you roll your eyes enough, your husband, your wife, or your life will change. 

You’ve been gathering up stories as evidence to prove that the problem is him/her/them. But those stories are drowning out the real voice that needs to be heard: your own.

You’ve become the jailer in your own life, locked into autopilot with unconscious, habituated patterns that you don’t even like.

Your contempt for your partner is like a poison seeping out of you because it’s been coursing through your own system (your organs, brain, heart, psyche, and soul) and is now overflowing.

I know that pattern well. I lived it for years.

Join me for a marriage masterclass where we don’t talk about your marriage.

Sounds counterintuitive, but this sh*t works. 

That’s what I hear from women who have been in couples therapy for years before they land in my space – and everything finally shifts.

You’ll learn to deeply, profoundly, and thoroughly attend to YOURSELF… so you can land happily in your marriage with lightness, ease, and the deep-seated generosity that comes from being a well-satisfied grown-ass woman.

And I’m not kidding – we’ll spend virtually no time at all talking about your partner. (Haven’t they gotten enough attention from you already?) Instead, YOU’LL take center stage. 

In fact, you could even invite your single friend who’s been kinda bitchy lately… if you dare. 😉

UNBITCH YOURSELF

Reclaim your power in life and in love

Try these on and see how they fit:

❤️‍🩹 You’re repeating the same arguments with your spouse and feel powerless to break the pattern

❤️‍🩹 Your marriage is “fine” – but far from happily ever after

❤️‍🩹 You want the tools to feel grounded and nourished – even if you’re not in a relationship

❤️‍🩹 You’re eager to step into your power as a grown-ass woman and take ownership over your life

❤️‍🩹 You’re not married – partly because you keep sabotaging your relationships

❤️‍🩹 You’ve lost your sense of who you really are (in your marriage or in your life)

❤️‍🩹 You’re ready to take your place in a sacred circle of women who know what it’s like to have your needs go unmet

❤️‍🩹 You’ve reached the f*ck-it point and you’ve got nothing to lose!

Did any of those have you nodding? If so, this masterclass is perfect for you!

Could this be your 60-minute magic wand? 🪄

When you become a well-nourished woman – emotionally, spiritually, energetically, and physically – you finally step into your true power. You become wise, generous, and self-assured. 

You embody satisfaction without having to search for it. You radiate health and wholeness without having to prove anything. And you quietly grant permission for others to be enough.

That’s the alchemy behind these teachings. It’s the reason they’ll elevate your marriage – even if you never mention this masterclass to your spouse.

Get the tools you can start using (right now, TODAY) to deeply nourish yourself, live into your purpose, and embrace satisfaction and ease in your marriage.

I can’t wait to see you… and light your way! 

The hour that will launch the rest of your wild, wise, well-satisfied life

It’s time to break up with your inner bitch and fall in love with your sparkling self