I was living in a lot of fear and anxiety when I decided to sign up for the course. And I didn't have the perspective that I now have that a lot of that was based on my own thoughts. At the time, I was basing it on the actions of my husband. His actions were fitting the story that I had created in my head. And I was able to point at him many, many times what he was doing that was ruining our marriage, that was causing it to be really hard for us to be on the same page or for us to be happy. Even though, in my mind, I understood that I was also contributing to whatever problems were affecting the issues we were having. I wasn't focused on that at all, I was focused on the outside. 

A lot of the things that you said about being a raging feminist really resonated with me. I feel like my husband has borne the brunt of that. And it probably hasn't been that fair to him on a lot of levels because he is not the typical patriarchy that I wanted to rise up against for so many decades.

Weeks three and five really spoke to me, in terms of raising your vibration and understanding how you want to be in the world. You want to be accepting, you want to be happy, you want to find joy. And so being able to approach that and make a constant choice to do that. To know that that was something that I could constantly strive for. And just take a step back and choose it made a huge difference. The way that you presented that information really spoke to me.

There were moments when I was listening to those videos that I was in tears, just not because of what was happening in my own life or because right now, but because of realizing how much I had carried over from the past. 

I work in the wellness industry. So much of what you say about being and doing, I already tell all of my clients about. Like, I'm saying that every day. But I had skipped those first steps. And I was living over here, without actually doing the work of grounding and anchoring and breathing in order to actually truly be in the moment, in my own marriage. I could do that with most everybody else I interact with, but I was having a hard time doing it here at home. So you gave me that opportunity to take that in and to really truly practice it here on this stage.

[Since taking the course,] there have been opportunities for my husband and I to have disagreements. And I will make a point of admitting my mistake if it is my own. And I will make a point of going back to him in an anchored and calm manner, sooner rather than later. So I'm not stewing over it. And I'm not really giving him the opportunities to stew over it either. My house has been a lot friendlier, especially these last two weeks. 

Every video that I watched, every Q&A, I felt like you were speaking to me and I was hearing what I needed to hear. Your training, and the way that you set it up and organize it and the way that you share the information is very, very well done. So thank you.

Highlights From Kara's Story